[ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : Is it OK to still see my ex’s family, and does he have to know about it if I do visit?

I was with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years, it would have been our anniversary next month, but things ended between us two weeks ago. I am obviously devastated, but can see that it is probably for the best, as he clearly wasnt happy, and it was dragging me down.

We have a house together and are in the process of sorting things out with our solicitors. I took some of his stuff round to his mums (where my ex is now living) and she invited me in for a cup of tea and told me that if I need anything, I know where she is, and that if I want to pop round I will always be welcome, regardless of how my ex sees things.

I know he isnt coming back to me, but his family have been a part of my family and have been in my life for 6 years, and it upsets me to think that I wont get to see them anymore.

My mum and my ex’s mum were colleagues, so they had that in common long before we got together ,and I dont want our split to affect their friendship.
Eventhough his mum has said I should keep in touch, is this the right thing to do, seeing as my ex is living with them? His parents did so much for me, I don’t want to cut them out of my life. Things hadn’t been right with us for a while, but he never opened up to his parents about anything and I don’t want to be going round if they don’t know the whole story, and I don’t want to make this harder than it already is.

How do I deal with this?

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